才是无悔的人生,一直要求我们做个好人、好人

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究竟什么样的人生,才是无悔的人生?

I‘ve been thinking for a long time about what we do in our life。。。

究竟什么样的人生,才是无悔的人生?

By Sam Altman
http://blog.samaltman.com/

你考虑过这个问题吗?

我一直在进行关于人生的思考。

你考虑过这个问题吗?

I turned 30 last week and a friend asked me if I’d figured out any life
advice in the past decade worth passing on. I’m somewhat hesitant to
publish this because I think these lists usually seem hollow, but here
is a cleaned up version of my answer:

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  1. Never put your family, friends, or significant other low on your
    priority list. Prefer a handful of truly close friends to a hundred
    acquaintances. Don’t lose touch with old friends. Occasionally stay
    up until the sun rises talking to people. Have parties.
  2. Life is not a dress rehearsal—this is probably it. Make it count.
    Time is extremely limited and goes by fast. Do what makes you happy
    and fulfilled—few people get remembered hundreds of years after they
    die anyway. Don’t do stuff that doesn’t make you happy (this happens
    most often when other people want you to do something). Don’t spend
    time trying to maintain relationships with people you don’t like,
    and cut negative people out of your life. Negativity is really bad.
    Don’t let yourself make excuses for not doing the things you want to
    do.
  3. How to succeed: pick the right thing to do (this is critical and
    usually ignored), focus, believe in yourself (especially when others
    tell you it’s not going to work), develop personal connections with
    people that will help you, learn to identify talented people, and
    work hard. It’s hard to identify what to work on because original
    thought is hard.
  4. On work: it’s difficult to do a great job on work you don’t care
    about. And it’s hard to be totally happy/fulfilled in life if you
    don’t like what you do for your work. Work very hard—a surprising
    number of people will be offended that you choose to work hard—but
    not so hard that the rest of your life passes you by. Aim to be the
    best in the world at whatever you do professionally. Even if you
    miss, you’ll probably end up in a pretty good place. Figure out your
    own productivity system—don’t waste time being unorganized, working
    at suboptimal times, etc. Don’t be afraid to take some career risks,
    especially early on. Most people pick their career fairly
    randomly—really think hard about what you like, what fields are
    going to be successful, and try to talk to people in those fields.
  5. On money: Whether or not money can buy happiness, it can buy
    freedom, and that’s a big deal. Also, lack of money is very
    stressful. In almost all ways, having enough money so that you don’t
    stress about paying rent does more to change your wellbeing than
    having enough money to buy your own jet. Making money is often more
    fun than spending it, though I personally have never regretted money
    I’ve spent on friends, new experiences, saving time, travel, and
    causes I believe in.
  6. Talk to people more. Read more long content and less tweets. Watch
    less TV. Spend less time on the Internet.
  7. Don’t waste time. Most people waste most of their time, especially
    in business.
  8. Don’t let yourself get pushed around. As Paul Graham once said to
    me, “People can become formidable, but it’s hard to predict who”.
    (There is a big difference between confident and arrogant. Aim for
    the former, obviously.)
  9. Have clear goals for yourself every day, every year, and every
    decade.
  10. However, as valuable as planning is, if a great opportunity comes
    along you should take it. Don’t be afraid to do something slightly
    reckless. One of the benefits of working hard is that good
    opportunities will come along, but it’s still up to you to jump on
    them when they do.
  11. Go out of your way to be around smart, interesting, ambitious
    people. Work for them and hire them (in fact, one of the most
    satisfying parts of work is forging deep relationships with really
    good people). Try to spend time with people who are either among the
    best in the world at what they do or extremely promising but totally
    unknown. It really is true that you become an average of the people
    you spend the most time with.
  12. Minimize your own cognitive load from distracting things that don’t
    really matter. It’s hard to overstate how important this is, and how
    bad most people are at it. Get rid of distractions in your life.
    Develop very strong ways to avoid letting crap you don’t like doing
    pile up and take your mental cycles, especially in your work life.
  13. Keep your personal burn rate low. This alone will give you a lot of
    opportunities in life.
  14. Summers are the best.
  15. Don’t worry so much. Things in life are rarely as risky as they
    seem. Most people are too risk-averse, and so most advice is biased
    too much towards conservative paths.
  16. Ask for what you want.
  17. If you think you’re going to regret not doing something, you should
    probably do it. Regret is the worst, and most people regret far more
    things they didn’t do than things they did do. When in doubt, kiss
    the boy/girl.
  18. Exercise. Eat well. Sleep. Get out into nature with some regularity.
  19. Go out of your way to help people. Few things in life are as
    satisfying. Be nice to strangers. Be nice even when it doesn’t
    matter.
  20. Youth is a really great thing. Don’t waste it. In fact, in your 20s,
    I think it’s ok to take a “Give me financial discipline, but not
    just yet” attitude. All the money in the world will never get back
    time that passed you by.
  21. Tell your parents you love them more often. Go home and visit as
    often as you can.
  22. This too shall pass.
  23. Learn voraciously.
  24. Do new things often. This seems to be really important. Not only
    does doing new things seem to slow down the perception of time,
    increase happiness, and keep life interesting, but it seems to
    prevent people from calcifying in the ways that they think. Aim to
    do something big, new, and risky every year in your personal and
    professional life.
  25. Remember how intensely you loved your boyfriend/girlfriend when you
    were a teenager? Love him/her that intensely now. Remember how
    excited and happy you got about stuff as a kid? Get that excited and
    happy now.
  26. Don’t screw people and don’t burn bridges. Pick your battles
    carefully.
  27. Forgive people.
  28. Don’t chase status. Status without substance doesn’t work for long
    and is unfulfilling.
  29. Most things are ok in moderation. Almost nothing is ok in extreme
    amounts.
  30. Existential angst is part of life. It is particularly noticeable
    around major life events or just after major career milestones. It
    seems to particularly affect smart, ambitious people. I think one of
    the reasons some people work so hard is so they don’t have to spend
    too much time thinking about this. Nothing is wrong with you for
    feeling this way; you are not alone.
  31. Be grateful and keep problems in perspective. Don’t complain too
    much. Don’t hate other people’s success (but remember that some
    people will hate your success, and you have to learn to ignore it).
  32. Be a doer, not a talker.
  33. Given enough time, it is possible to adjust to almost anything, good
    or bad. Humans are remarkable at this.
  34. Think for a few seconds before you act. Think for a few minutes if
    you’re angry.
  35. Don’t judge other people too quickly. You never know their whole
    story and why they did or didn’t do something. Be empathetic.
  36. The days are long but the decades are short.

也许会对你有所启发…

We start by being taught in school how to become good citizens。

也许会对你有所启发…

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我们接受的教育,一直要求我们做个好人、好人。

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I‘ve been thinking for a long time about what we do in our
life。。。

我一直在进行关于人生的思考。

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I‘ve been thinking for a long time about what we do in our
life。。。

我一直在进行关于人生的思考。

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We spend a great part of our childhood studying。

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We start by being taught in school how to become good citizens。

我们大把的美好童年时光,几乎都被用来学习。

We start by being taught in school how to become good citizens。

我们接受的教育,一直要求我们做个好人、好人。

And finally we get the diploma that will ensure us “the position we
deserve”。

我们接受的教育,一直要求我们做个好人、好人。

We spend a great part of our childhood studying。

最后,终于得到了一个能给自己些许保障的——被称为“文凭”的东西。

We spend a great part of our childhood studying。

我们大把的美好童年时光,几乎都被用来学习。

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我们大把的美好童年时光,几乎都被用来学习。

And finally we get the diploma that will ensure us “the position we
deserve”。

We participate to the increase of unemployment 。。。until we find a job

And finally we get the diploma that will ensure us “the position we
deserve”。

最后,终于得到了一个能给自己些许保障的——被称为“文凭”的东西。

我们一毕业就面临失业,找不到工作就不停的面试。

最后,终于得到了一个能给自己些许保障的——被称为“文凭”的东西。

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Through hard tests we are accepted in the world of work。

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We participate to the increase of unemployment 。。。until we find a
job

我们一毕业就面临失业,找不到工作就不停的面试。

Through hard tests we are accepted in the world of work。

终于过五关斩六将,我们得到了份工作。

终于过五关斩六将,我们得到了份工作。

We participate to the increase of unemployment 。。。until we find a
job

我们一毕业就面临失业,找不到工作就不停的面试。

Through hard tests we are accepted in the world of work。

终于过五关斩六将,我们得到了份工作。

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We perform a good professional career filled with activity and
efforts…a lot, a lot of efforts 。。。till we fall down
exhausted。。。

在我们的职业生涯中,为了有好的表现,花费了太多太多的精力和努力,直到我们精疲力尽。。。

But we are great professionals with our valuable market share。

但我们总是坚信,自己的价值能在这个社会,发出闪闪光芒。

We perform a good professional career filled with activity and efforts…a
lot, a lot of efforts 。。。till we fall down exhausted。。。

We perform a good professional career filled with activity and
efforts…a lot, a lot of efforts 。。。till we fall down
exhausted。。。?

在我们的职业生涯中,为了有好的表现,花费了太多太多的精力和努力,直到我们精疲力尽。。。?

But we are great professionals with our valuable market share。

但我们总是坚信,自己的价值能在这个社会,发出闪闪光芒。

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在我们的职业生涯中,为了有好的表现,花费了太多太多的精力和努力,直到我们精疲力尽。。。

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Time keeps on passing, and。。。 。。。we select new targets。

时光飞快,我们慢慢成长。。。。。然后有了新的目标。

We meet the sweetheart of our life。。。 。。。and promise a
never-ending love。

当我们终于遇到生命中的那个TA,我们毫不犹豫的许下了不朽的誓言。

Passionate hugs, and here comes a baby into our home。

热恋过后,我们迎来了新的家庭成员。

Damned night couldn’t close my eyes!

可是不知为何,这个生活的变动,却让我彻夜难眠。

But we are great professionals with our valuable market share。

Time keeps on passing, and。。。 。。。we select new targets。

时光飞快,我们慢慢成长。。。。。然后有了新的目标。

We meet the sweetheart of our life。。。 。。。and promise a
never-ending love。

当我们终于遇到生命中的那个TA,我们毫不犹豫的许下了不朽的誓言。

Passionate hugs, and here comes a baby into our home。

热恋过后,我们迎来了新的家庭成员。

Damned night couldn’t close my eyes!

可是不知为何,这个生活的变动,却让我彻夜难眠。

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但我们总是坚信,自己的价值能在这个社会,发出闪闪光芒。

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We keep on advancing in the society trying to make the best of our
time。

我们还在继续向上爬啊爬,总希望爬得越高越好。

We are the stars wherever we go and we are finally RICH!

终于有一天,自己走到哪儿就成了哪儿的焦点—-没错,我们有钱了。

But we need some time more to triumph completely。

当然,真正的成功也许尚未到来,我们还得不断努力。

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We keep on advancing in the society trying to make the best of our
time。

我们还在继续向上爬啊爬,总希望爬得越高越好。

We are the stars wherever we go and we are finally RICH!

终于有一天,自己走到哪儿就成了哪儿的焦点—-没错,我们有钱了。

But we need some time more to triumph completely。

当然,真正的成功也许尚未到来,我们还得不断努力。

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Time keeps on passing, and。。。 。。。we select new targets。

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Gosh! One day they tell they can do without you。

乐极生悲的事情时有发生,当有一天他们不打算继续带你玩儿了。

By this time, you think getting crazy, you feel destroyed, you
feel you lost means of communication。

这时,你感觉五雷轰顶,挫败感让你丧失了一切与他人沟通的能力和心情。

You realize you are cut off from everything。

你觉得自己被周围的一切孤立了。

Now time does not pass any longer, still you are loosing it。

你无可奈何,唯有沉沦中混沌度日。

时光飞快,我们慢慢成长。。。。。然后有了新的目标。

Gosh! One day they tell they can do without you。

乐极生悲的事情时有发生,当有一天他们不打算继续带你玩儿了。

By this time, you think getting crazy, you feel destroyed, you
feel you lost means of communication。

这时,你感觉五雷轰顶,挫败感让你丧失了一切与他人沟通的能力和心情。

You realize you are cut off from everything。

你觉得自己被周围的一切孤立了。

Now time does not pass any longer, still you are loosing it。

你无可奈何,唯有沉沦中混沌度日。

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We meet the sweetheart of our life。。。 。。。and promise a
never-ending love。

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